For many, sex is a very important act between two committed people. And just like most women, men find sexual intimacy to be most satisfying within a committed relationship. One reason is that long-term partners know how to please one another better than strangers do.
Women find it hard to understand why men love sex so much, They want to help you,they want sex. They say they love you,they want sex. You mistakenly sleep over, they want sex. They want to borrow you money, they want sex. They want to give you a job, they want sex. They want to pass you in Exam. They want sex.
First of all You need to understand the system of men. Men are naturally created that way, Do you know that 95% of healthy men wake up with an erection?
Do you know that the manhood has a mind of his own? A man can be sleeping,once you start rubbing the manhood, it stands even when the man is asleep. Have you asked yourself why men are never on any periods cramps or bad moods? That’s how God created Men.
A man is naturally always ready for sex. Rub a man on his head, he already thinks you want sex, wink at him, he’s already seeing you naked. wave at a man walking with his wife, some men will lose focus.
That’s why churches don’t allow ladies with short dresses to sit in front because they will confuse pastor. Its not by anointing or by speaking in tongues.
Men didn’t manufacture the high libido by themselves.
Men are all created in God’s image. The Bible recorded only few men who overcome sex in the Bible, Jesus Christ himself and Joseph, Joseph didn’t just run away, he fled. Jesus was very careful not to include a woman in his disciple train.
So many great men have fallen because of sex. Do you think they wanted to?. Soldiers in front of war still develop urge for Sex. So many soldiers were killed during Biafran war because a woman lured them Inside bush.
David in the bible sent a woman’s husband to the war front for him to die so he can have sex with the wife. do i need to tell you about Samson?. Solomon and other bible characters? It can only take the grace of God, fear of God, self control and some level of maturity to curtail this.
The way a man’s body react to this is not the same way a woman’s body react to it. How many great women have you heard messed up because of sex, None or even few. Stop petting a man who is not your husband or else he may misbehave, stop calling someone’s husband pet names, he may misbehave, stop going very close to a married man. Mind the kind of clothes you wear around men. Mind the way you throw yourself around men. Stop calling a man at midnight.
It is not easy for him to easily abstain from sex that is why you need to pray for your man, stand by him, never push him away, help him build himself to be able to resist the temptations of sex. With God and you he can become a better man. If you are a man give your life to Christ and run away when any girl comes unnecessary close. Avoid sexy chat and discussions that may charge your sexual desires. Married LADIES please don’t use sex to punish your huband because you will push him into temption ,those singles LADIES in his office also pray for such opportunity to sleep with your man and take him away from you . please use wisdom in all you do.