So many people fall in love with the idea of love but what they are feeling is not real love.
Some fall in love with beauty, material possessions and social standing thinking they are in love.
Others fall head over heels with people who helped them when they were in need, confusing pity for love.
Some mistake great sex for love. They think that the many orgasms they enjoy with their partner is a proof of love.
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A lot of people are in loveless relationships but don’t know how to leave. They don’t want to be seen as ungrateful or heartless because they owe the other party so much.
They don’t want the world to call them names for leaving someone who has been there for them in their darkest hour while they keep dying in silence.
They are unhappy because they are not in love with their partners but they don’t want to hurt them. They continue hurting themselves instead. They choose to stay put instead of freeing the other person and themselves too.
You have to think about yourself first.
, . Don’t get it twisted, it is either love or it isn’t.
Pity and gratitude is not love.
Don’t be afraid to let go of the idea of love you are experiencing if you are unhappy and go create your own reality.
• When you are in love, you won’t have doubts about what you are feeling. It will be as clear as the sky. You won’t be trapped because you don’t want to hurt the person you don’t love.
