Don’t Marry Her, If You Notice This

 

• Don’t marry her if you don’t love her, you must love your wife in marriage.

 

• Don’t marry her if you can’t accept her past including the baby she had by mistake.

 

• Don’t marry her if you don’t want to have anything to do with all her family members.

 

• Don’t marry her if you hate her looks.

 

• Don’t marry her if she hates you or finds you disgusting.

 

• Don’t marry her if she does not believe in your vision and future.

 

• Don’t marry her if she is an unrepentant waster of resources.

 

• Don’t marry her if she is totally lazy, completely laid back and incorrigibly idle.

 

• Don’t marry her if she shamelessly flirts around.

 

• Don’t marry her if she is proud, rude, pompous, unteachable, abusive, saucy, sassy, arrogant, snobbish and high minded!

 

• Don’t marry her if she is an unrepentant feminist and you hate feminists.

 

• Don’t marry her if you are the very jealous, hot tempered type and she is very beautiful and intelligent. No matter how faithful she is, you will distrust, cage and abuse her.

Men with borderline personality disorder, the chauvinists, narcissists and paranoid can’t handle an extremely beautiful and intelligent woman.

 

• Don’t marry her if you hate her religion.

 

• Don’t marry her if she earns more than you and you are jealous of her success. Either you go out and earn more or appreciate her, respect her and encourage her to earn more and succeed other wise, marry a woman below your size.

 

• Don’t marry her if she is not God’s will for you.

 

Bottom line, marry someone who you completely agree with and agrees with you. That is what is in Amos 3:3.

 

Marriage is the complete acceptance of someone else while helping them to become better.

 

If you can’t accept her totally and help her become a better woman, please, don’t marry her. Marriage is not by force. May the good Lord grant us more understanding.