Caring For Woman
(1) ATTENTION
Yes, Attention, Women flourish on attention
Call her daily, call her for no reason, call her just to hear her voice,
Text her, Visit her, Take her out. Sit down and gist with her Play games or scrabble with her.
Don’t make her fight for your attention, other wise, you’ll make her feel unloved, she’ll begin to doubt your love, and you may end up losing her.
(2) AFFECTION/INTIMACY
Study her and speak her love language.
Let her see the affection even if she closed her eyes.
She craves your love, (except it’s your money she’s after.)
Every woman wants to be intimate with her, husband except she doesn’t love him or she has given up on the Marriage.
Stop being unromantic, and spend some quality intimate moment with your Wife at home, just playing with her hair and cuddling.
(3) YOUR LOVE VOCALIZED
If you are in a Relationship or Married, ask your wife or fiancee, if she’ll ever get tired of hearing “I love you” from you,
You know the answer already, they never get tired.
Speak the Love daily let her HEAR it
Write it down as letters, let her READ it.
(3) PAMPERING
A Woman wants to be spoilt, no matter her age, Pet her.
Be gentle with her. She’s not a Man,
Be patient with her (especially when mood begins to swing).
Cuddle and pet your Wife like a little baby.
Spoil her with caring.
Spoil her with your money, get her gifts, even as God blesses you.
(4) HONESTY AND OPENNESS
Most Men find it difficult to be honest and open with their feelings to their wives, unknown to them Women crave this more.
A woman wants to know her husband, his fears, his weakness, his secrets and truth.
Trust her with them, she wants you to be “naked” to her and not ashamed, then she feels safe and free to reciprocate, trust him with her own secret and her everything, .
(5) FINANCIAL SUPPORT
You were thinking i wouldn’t mention this?
No way.
Even if she were a millionaire, your money means more to her than hers.
Every Woman wants the financial support and backing of her husband or fiance to feel loved.
(6) COMMITMENT
Yes, Women desire commitment.
If they love you, they want to marry you.
If they marry you, they want children.
They always seek deeper connections,
They want you to keep to your words, commit to your promises, be there for her, for the kids, do right by your family and be Responsible.
(7) LEADERSHIP
No, she’s not lost.
No, she’s not clueless or stupid,
She can as well lead herself,
But when she decides to become your wife and accepts your being her head, she voluntarily allows you play that role.
So step up.
Spiritually and otherwise.
When you are constantly doing all these, her Submission will come naturally on auto pilot, she will happily follow your leadership, take your corrections, easily forgive your short comings, respect you, honor you, she will surrender everything about herself to you and do anything to make you happy,
Loving a Woman isn’t easy at times,
That’s why you start learning by Loving her God.