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Beware Dear Boyfriend/Girlfriend

Dear Singles Engaged…

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Are you generous or making an investment?

The bulk money and resources you give to your lover is it an act of generosity or investment opportunity?

I asked so that you can be aware of what you are doing before it’s too late.

That was how one sister gave a whole 3M to her boyfriend to start transport business.

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The guy had been without job for three years (after NYSC).

Their relationship was about 16 months old.

They had started to talk about getting married. But how could they marry when the guy doesn’t have a job?

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The lady decided to help him out so that he could be financial OK for marriage.

She spoke (lied) to her daddy and she was able to get 3M from him.

So she transferred the whole money into his account.

So everything continued to go smoothly in their relationship. In fact the love was becoming deeper than before.

3M wasn’t small money so why shouldn’t the love grow stronger?

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Intimacy induced by money.

Just as the Bible says…beauty and gift can be deceitful.

Later on they had some disagreement which shouldn’t mean much but before you can understand what was going on the Lover Boy declared that the relationship was over.

The sister thought it was a joke. But it wasn’t. He had made up his mind to quit the relationship. Nothing was going to make him change his mind.

His reason?

He can’t marry a lady that can’t be submissive to his authority.

When she gave him 3M he didn’t know that she won’t be submissive.

The innocent and naive sister submitted her father’s money but still labeled as potentially arrogant wife.

 

Fast forward…

They are seriously having legal battles now.

She wanted to recover her 3M but the guy claimed the money was a gift which there wasn’t any agreement on terms and condition.

So I ask you today… Are you just generous or you are making an investment?

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You are giving? Yes, it is good.

You can’t truly love and not give.

But when you are giving what could cause “trouble” in the future, why give it?

The lady you are “sending” to school now, what will happen after 6 years of her medical training, and she tells you that she can’t marry you because…

Where her mummy went to pray, the prophet said you are water while she is fire.

So you guys are not compatible at all.

Where was her mother when you were “spending” on her?

Where was their prophet when you send her through medical school?

If you will attempt murder or suicide, because the guy or lady you spent on disappointed you, then you should stop the spending.

Give and support because you love to do so not because of marriage promise.

Don’t lend that guy that money if it would become police case if he fails to refund you.

Give what you won’t regret.

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Give what you can do away with.

Give what you have.

Give not to impress.

Give not because you are pressured into giving.

I have seen a lot, that is why am addressing on this issue.

Giving is good and the right thing to do but don’t give what you will regret.

Give with sense and not emotions.

Some relationship will end if someone stop giving financial inducement. Why? The relationship is not about love but gifts availability.

Such person will remain with you until he or she has gotten enough from you.

Am I saying it is wrong to give? No!

I’m saying give what you won’t regret giving. Give because you want to bless someone not because you want a return on your investment.

You are not married and you have put your moneys together to start a business. No legal documentation? It is well with you both sir and ma.

 

Make adjustment before it’s too late !!!

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